Comments on: Regarding Neli Latson https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/ Mon, 05 Jul 2010 14:02:40 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: sanabituranima https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22683 Mon, 05 Jul 2010 14:02:40 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22683 ACK! I just got an “It wasn’t the police, people in power always tell the truth, research the facts before you post, and by facts I mean only what people in power said and not what anybody else said” type comment on my blog, which I decided to let through moderation and argue with. It’s so frustrating that people will always believe the police, however implausible their story is, but they will always jump to conclusions against their victims. I reckon it’s because people just don’t want to admit to themselves how much bad stuff happens, because it’s so depressing to realise what a dark and sinful place the world is.

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By: sanabituranima https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22682 Wed, 30 Jun 2010 21:46:21 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22682 What a bizarre accusation! Why would you pretned to be your mum?

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By: ballastexistenz https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22681 Wed, 30 Jun 2010 14:45:54 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22681 Yeah. Among many other things, there’s no way on earth I would have ever thought up a phrase like “ran right out of your shoes”. :-) Plus there’s the matter of her IP address being different (but consistently in the range of her local vicinity, which is over 3000 miles from me).

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By: apples https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22680 Wed, 30 Jun 2010 13:03:01 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22680 Well, regarding both Neli Larson and your own experience, I’m outraged, disgusted and shocked.

Sadly, and most worryingly of all, I’m not at all surprised at the prejudice, willfull ignorance and bigotry.

Interestingly, when I deliver autism awareness training to the local police they are incredibly resistant and argumentative – no one else I’ve ever trained behaves in that way.

And ‘mom’ I very much believe you are real!

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By: mom https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22679 Mon, 28 Jun 2010 04:24:54 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22679 Good grief!

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By: ballastexistenz https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22678 Sun, 27 Jun 2010 17:58:29 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22678 Well only two assholes so far. One trying to argue with me and the other saying I’m faking the posts from my mother. I’m sure that’s a surprise both to my mother and the commenters who met her at Autreat last year.

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By: mom https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22677 Fri, 25 Jun 2010 06:56:56 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22677 I remember sending a letter to the police department after this suggesting they get some awareness of PTSD and disabilities in general for their officers as well as sensitivity training.

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By: ballastexistenz https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22676 Fri, 25 Jun 2010 04:18:38 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22676 Yeah that’s basically it. I don’t remember everything about how I got to the police station but I vividly remember one of them coming to the door and being concerned that I was sitting on the floor under the table. He asked the other guy what to do and the other guy laughed and said “Don’t worry about her. If you come in and see her feet are level with the [observation] window? THEN you should call me.” (i.e. a suicide joke). They both laughed and proceeded to discuss other “loonies” and the like, including one they recognized from descriptions on the police radio they were listening to.

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By: mom https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22675 Thu, 24 Jun 2010 23:43:18 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22675 Don’t post if this is too personal….

I remember the day program incident and this is from my viewpoint as a parent. According to the day staff the violence was sudden and unexpected and did not personally involve you but witnessing it triggered your PTSD and you ran right out of your shoes. I remember they called your father and said you were just suddenly gone. Your shoes were there and a shawl but not you. They had looked for 15 minutes and couldn’t find you anywhere. By the time your father arrived it had been 45 minutes. He immediately had them call the police for help in finding you fearing that running scared like that in a city you might run right into something horrific or someone who might harm you. Two hours later we got a phone call that you were at the police station and had been “found” miles away. We rushed down and I have to admit the picture you see on television of a found child with ice cream cone in hand was the image I anticipated. I will never forget being led back to a back room where two very large armed policeman were sitting outside a locked room. You were inside that locked room, cold and hungry and thirsty and barefoot shivering without a blanket or water or a kind word. I was shocked.

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By: Alexander Cheezem https://ballastexistenz.wordpress.com/2010/06/23/regarding-neli-latson/#comment-22674 Thu, 24 Jun 2010 16:21:40 +0000 http://ballastexistenz.autistics.org/?p=638#comment-22674 Ugh. Situations like this… ugh. I utterly lack words.

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